Many women fantasize about becoming the women men adore and never want to leave.  But just as many women go about it in the altogether wrong way and end up losing one man after another.  What is the secret?  I’ll show you.

The first thing you have to do is totally change your way of thinking.  The world we live in has done a huge disservice to all men and women by creating unrealistic expectations of what men and women should be.

For instance, throughout most of our history we have been taught that men are obsessed with sexuality and that all they want is sex .  We’ve been led to believe that if we give our man enough sex he’ll love us forever and never leave.  That is complete and utter foolishness !

Yes men want sex, but surprise, women do too ! Women have just as high of a sex drive as men but the difference is our society allows men to indulge their sex drive while women have been taught that ‘good girls’ will wait until they’re married.  The result?  Men judge their ‘manliness’ on the number of conquests they make and women are left feeling frustrated that they are forced to pretend they don’t have the same needs .

So if you want your man to be happy you need to get over the idea that he wants sex all the time or that he needs it more than you.  Men and women really aren’t that different in what they really desire from a relationship.  One word can describe what they want: connection.

As people we all have the need to feel connected to others.  If you can never forget that and base your relationship on that fact, you will have a very good chance of making your man love you forever.

These connections can be made emotionally, spiritually, and sexually.  The more of these kinds of connections you and your man have the stronger your relationship will be.  If you want to keep him in love with you stay in love with yourself.  Don’t get sidetracked and put all your needs on hold to accommodate your man .  Most men will like that in the short term but in the long run they’ll get tired of it .

After all, you have to think about who you were when you first met , he was attracted to that person so why would you change and become some boring, clingy person now?

The women men adore and never want to leave know all of theses things.  She gives her man the connections he needs while keeping her own identity intact.  She doesn’t value his needs more than hers, but she lets him know that she is his biggest fan and loves and accepts him unconditionally. If you’ve lost your man and you want to get your ex back, then start making these ideas part of your life today.